Toolkit

The toolkit

There are thousands of apps.
You need about seven.

This is the short list. What each category is genuinely for, what to look for when you choose, and — the part most sites skip — who should ignore it completely.

How we make money, plainly.
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Category 01

The AI assistant

If you only ever adopt one thing from this whole site, make it this. It is the single highest-leverage tool available to a non-technical person today.

A general-purpose AI assistant

Claude, ChatGPT and Gemini are the three most capable general assistants. All three have a usable free tier. Pick one and stay with it long enough to get good — switching constantly is the main reason people never improve.

Essential

Best for: writing and replying, thinking something through, summarising long documents, explaining anything at the level you actually need, planning, and drafting the boring stuff.

Skip it if: you need guaranteed factual accuracy without checking. These tools are confident even when wrong. Treat every factual claim as a first draft, not a verdict — and never paste in ID numbers, banking details or anyone else’s private information.

Category 02

The connector

The thing that makes your existing apps talk to each other, so a form submission becomes an invoice becomes a reminder — without you.

An automation platform

Zapier, Make and n8n all do the same core job: when X happens in one app, do Y in another. Zapier is the friendliest, Make is the most visual, n8n is the most powerful and the cheapest at scale if you don’t mind a steeper start.

High value

Best for: anything you do more than twice a week that involves moving information between two places.

Skip it if: you haven’t yet written down which task you’re automating. People buy these, build nothing, and cancel three months later. Do Day 2 of the Reset first.

A form that starts things

Every automated business begins with a decent intake form. Tally, Google Forms and Typeform all work. The magic isn’t the form — it’s that the form triggers everything else.

Start free

Best for: enquiries, bookings, quote requests, client onboarding. Skip it if: your enquiries all arrive by WhatsApp and always will — automate the reply instead.

Category 03

The household set

Four boring tools that quietly remove most domestic friction. None of them are exciting. All of them work.

One shared calendar

Google Calendar or Apple Calendar. The tool matters far less than the rule: everything goes in one, and everyone can see it.

Free

A document vault

Google Drive, iCloud or Dropbox. IDs, medical records, school forms, insurance, warranties — scanned once, findable forever.

Free tier

One capture list

Apple Reminders, Google Keep, Todoist. Whatever is fastest to open on your phone. Speed of capture beats every clever feature.

Free

A password manager

Bitwarden, 1Password or your device’s built-in keychain. This is the single biggest security upgrade available to a normal household.

Essential
Category 04

The body set

Health tech is the easiest place to waste money. Two things are worth owning; almost everything else is jewellery.

A wearable you’ll actually wear

A watch or ring that tracks sleep and heart rate. The best one is the one that doesn’t annoy you at night, because data you don’t collect is worth nothing.

Optional

A blood pressure cuff

Unglamorous, cheap, and the single most clinically useful number most adults can track at home. Get one validated for accuracy.

Underrated

An honest health caveat

None of this is medical advice, and no consumer device diagnoses anything. Trends over weeks are useful; single readings are usually noise. If a number worries you, that is a reason to speak to a doctor, not to spend an evening reading forums.

Kept current

This list changes when the tools do.

We revisit the toolkit regularly and remove anything that stops earning its place. Join the Signal and you’ll hear when something moves — including when we drop something.